I was a Women's Studies major in College - and in my junior year I marched in Washington DC at The March for Women's Lives organized by the National Organization for Women.
It was amazing to see over 500,000 women, men, and children marching in solidarity for the human rights and reproductive rights of women. It energized and inspired me, and shaped the work I do to this day.
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I was absolutely an activist in my 20's. But my 30's? Not so much. My focus turned toward my personal future as I reached toward the female American dream: a partner I loved, 1.5 kids, a house in a good neighborhood, and a career that was meaningful and earned a decent salary.
Four years ago I started saying to myself, “I used to be such an activist... what happened?” I think I eschewed the word because I linked it to anger. But in retrospect, I don’t remember feeling angry - I felt alive and vital. As Brené Brown puts it, I felt like I was in the arena.
Now in my 40's (ok, late 40's, but who's counting?) I realize that no matter how much of the American dream I have, it is a short-lived fulfillment. How can I feel satisfied while so much of humanity struggles to get their most basic needs met, while our ecosystem deteriorates under our negligence and greed, and while women and girls around the world continue to be the target of heinous crimes?
The same goes for personal growth. I have spent the last two decades finding myself, healing old wounds, using awareness practices to out-create deep-seeded psychological patterning. I am a better person for it - thank GODDESS for therapy - and I feel that I could spend my life working on my own personal evolution (is there ever an end to it?).
But I want to go beyond me. It is my wish that every human being has the luxury of working towards their fullest self-expression in this lifetime, just like I do.
So I can’t stop at my life. I need to fight for the lives of everyone around me. I need to speak up for those whose voices cannot be heard. I need to use the inner and outer power that I have accumulated through my personal work to make the way for a more sustainable future for all.
And so this weekend, I will march again. And I do not march alone. I'll be joining thousands of Coloradans at the Women's March on Denver to show my commitment to social justice, human rights, and equality. If you're in Denver, I hope you'll join the Emerging Women group - we're meeting at the downtown Sheraton at 8:30am.
This sister march to the Women's March on Washington is our opportunity to send a message: we are connected, powerful, and will fiercely advocate for marginalized groups to ensure a compassionate and just world.
Not in the Denver area? Check and see if a city near you is hosting a march (at the time of this post there are over 600 scheduled). We will show up all over the nation, and our numbers will speak for themselves. We are half the population, and we will not be ignored. I can't wait to connect with you, and re-connect with my young activist self. Now is the time, sisters. Let's show 'em our strength!
PS - In true Emerging Women Live fashion, we will finish the day with embodied feminine power, aka dance party, at the Colorado Blue Ball - A Ball for All. I hope you are able to do the same with the soul sisters who keep your fire bright!